This week we took several surveys which gave some insights into what type of communicator we are and how well we communicate with others. We also asked two other people to take the surveys for us. What I found between my own results and their results did surprise me. Both people who took the surveys, a co-worker and my fiance, scored me higher than I scored myself. I was really surprised that both of them assumed that I was and even enjoy speaking in front of others. Personally, this is something I really struggle with because I do not like speaking before a group. My co-worker was surprised to hear that I actually don't like it and that I get as nervous as I do when I have to speak. So I guess I apparently keep it well hidden.
The first insight I gained is that others definitely perceive us differently than we may think. Our tone of voice, body language, and the language we use also affects others perceptions of us. While we may think we are not communicating well, others may feel that the communication was successful. In the same sense, sometimes we think we communicated our message clearly when in reality others may not have received the message or understood what we were trying to communicate.
The second insight I gained is that I am definitely more critical of myself than others. I am sure this is the case with most people, I just didn't realize how harshly I was judging myself until I took the surveys.
I enjoyed this type of self-reflection and the opportunity to see where I need to improve my communications skills.
The first insight I gained is that others definitely perceive us differently than we may think. Our tone of voice, body language, and the language we use also affects others perceptions of us. While we may think we are not communicating well, others may feel that the communication was successful. In the same sense, sometimes we think we communicated our message clearly when in reality others may not have received the message or understood what we were trying to communicate.
The second insight I gained is that I am definitely more critical of myself than others. I am sure this is the case with most people, I just didn't realize how harshly I was judging myself until I took the surveys.
I enjoyed this type of self-reflection and the opportunity to see where I need to improve my communications skills.
TMahaney,
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with the fact that we have to make sure that our message is clearly heard by the listener because sometimes this might not be the case. I have experienced this numerous times with my family, friends and colleagues where facts or opinions are often twisted leading to confusion and unwanted chaos. Great points in the post!