My Family Culture

If I had to choose just three items to take with me and my family to a new culture they would be:

1. Our family Bible, which contains the births and deaths of several generations of our family.  This Bible was given to me by my grandmother who filled in the family tree from her Bible.  This was a tradition for my grandmother when ever one of us married.  Unfortunately, my grandmother is no longer with us, however; my mother continues the tradition.  The Bible represents not only our religion but our family history as well.
2. My family scrapbook would be the second item I would take.  I started the family scrapbook when I became pregnant with my first child.  It holds pictures, news clippings, and awards from my children as well as pictures of us on family vacations and outings.
3. My maternal grandfather's wedding ring.  This is the ring that my maternal grandmother bought for my grandfather when he returned from WWII after being a prisoner of war in Russia.  While he was a prisoner of war my grandfather lost his original wedding ring so my grandmother replaced it when he returned.  She gave it to me during one of our visits to Germany.

I would explain to others that these three items represent to me my religion, my heritage, my culture, and the one thing that is most important to me:  my family.  My family, extended and immediate, mean the world to me.  We have always all been very close and have seen each other through some very serious trials and tribulations.

If I were told that I could only keep one item I would feel very torn and heartbroken.  Out of the three items I believe I would choose my family's Bible.  I would choose this item out of the three because it does contain my family's religion, some single snapshots of family, my family's history and heritage.  I believe this item is a complete representation of my family's culture.

One of the biggest insights I gained from this assignment is how I would feel having to give up so much of my culture and family history.  I realized how sad and depressing this would be for me.  I also realized how important my heritage is to me.